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Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Partnership Between Man and Woman : This Is How It Actually Is !

Are you a successful and complementary human husband and wife pair ?

If you say in the affirmative, my heartiest compliments for being complementary to each other.

Because such complementary pairs are becoming a rare lot now-a-days.

By natural make up human male and female couple are antagonistic to each other. But if they are capable of using their intelligent mind wisely they can convert that and progress towards being complementary to each other.

When you become complementary you become wholesome humans, the way God wanted you to become. Why God chose humans to be progressive like this is the prerogative of the Universal Creator. He could have created us perfect, though, just as He created many such perfected orders of beings in this Universe.

In this context, let me reproduce below some statements from my favorite revelatory knowledge book authored by such beings who are superior to human beings but exist invisible to us:

Every successful human institution embraces antagonisms of personal interest which have been adjusted to practical working harmony, and homemaking is no exception.

Marriage, the basis of home building, is the highest manifestation of that antagonistic co-operation which so often characterizes the contacts of nature and society. The conflict is inevitable.

Mating is inherent; it is natural. But marriage is not biologic; it is sociologic.

Passion insures that man and woman will come together, but the weaker parental instinct and the social mores hold them together.

Male and female are, practically regarded, two distinct varieties of the same species living in close and intimate association. Their viewpoints and entire life reactions are essentially different; they are wholly incapable of full and real comprehension of each other.

Complete understanding between the sexes (man and woman) is not attainable.

Women seem to have more intuition than men, but they also appear to be somewhat less logical.

Woman, however, has always been the moral standard-bearer and the spiritual leader of mankind. The hand that rocks the cradle still fraternizes with destiny.

The differences of nature, reaction, viewpoint, and thinking between men and women, far from occasioning concern, should be regarded as highly beneficial to mankind, both individually and collectively.

Many orders of universe creatures are created in dual phases of personality manifestation.

Among mortals [orders of living beings similar to humans of earth living in other planets in the universes], Material Sons [orders of immortal material beings similar but superior to human beings living in specially made non evolutionary worlds], and midsoniters [another kind of super human beings], this difference is described as male and female; among seraphim, cherubim, and Morontia Companions,[lower orders of invisible living beings] it has been denominated positive or aggressive and negative or retiring.

Men and women need each other in their morontial [ a possible first phase existence for some human beings after their death on earth]  and spiritual as well as in their mortal careers.

The differences in viewpoint between male and female persist even beyond the first life and throughout the local and superuniverse ascensions.[some of us are going to have successive and progressive lives to advanced forms after our mortal life on earth which is termed as our superuniverse ascension career]

 And even in Havona,[ the group of perfected worlds located near the centre of the present universe space] the pilgrims [those enjoying life even after mortal death and progressing ] who were once men and women will still be aiding each other in the Paradise ascent.

Never, even in the Corps of the Finality, will the creature metamorphose so far as to obliterate the personality trends that humans call male and female; always will these two basic variations of humankind continue to intrigue, stimulate, encourage, and assist each other; always will they be mutually dependent on co-operation in the solution of perplexing universe problems and in the overcoming of manifold cosmic difficulties.

While the sexes never can hope fully to understand each other, they are effectively complementary, and though co-operation is often more or less personally antagonistic, it is capable of maintaining and reproducing society.

Marriage is an institution designed to compose sex differences, meanwhile effecting the continuation of civilization and insuring the reproduction of the race.

Marriage is the mother of all human institutions, for it leads directly to home founding and home maintenance, which is the structural basis of society.

The family is vitally linked to the mechanism of self-maintenance; it is the sole hope of race perpetuation under the mores of civilization, while at the same time it most effectively provides certain highly satisfactory forms of self-gratification.

The family is man’s greatest purely human achievement, combining as it does the evolution of the biologic relations of male and female with the social relations of husband and wife.

God has a purpose in creating us man and woman.

He wants each one of us fulfill our relations responsibly and joyfully by being complementary by using our intelligence and wisdom and not remain static with our inherent antagonisms to each other.

Do you wish to learn more about your purpose of living in this world now ?

Why not have a serious look in the same book that I have mentioned above ?

The choice is absolutely yours. Yours alone !


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Saturday, April 7, 2012

The Beauty of Being In Harmony and Peace !

To really appreciate the beauty of harmony and peace you should taste the bitter ugliness of chaos caused by being in disharmony and tensions.

To some people the smooth sweetness of the ice cream is better felt good after a hot spicy meal !

But is it necessary to fight a war always to enjoy peace ?

Have you ever thought of enjoying a life fully in love, harmony and peace always in this earth ?

In my humble opinion a single man or a single woman cannot be the agents of peace and harmony always, because they are charged particles of life ! Of course they can make willful attempts of smoothening their charges and move around in apparent peace. But for natural peace of mind they need to be in the companionship of a complementary individual who is capable of making their charges at equilibrium and peace.

A man and a woman are designed for living as complementary pairs or complementary companions.

Alone a man or woman is not complete. Once paired up they are complete and should work in peaceful equilibrium, living together, moving together and working together.

In that complementary situation they make the most desirable human state of existence.

The loving family unit comes in to existence if they behave to work as complements to each other as a joined pair and not as repulsive individuals forcefully tied up.

As individuals they are different and charged with individual characteristics that seem at odds.

But when they become a couple of husband and wife, the opposing forces should complement and reinforce each other making a bonded pair stronger than the individuals forming the couple.

If the paired individuals learn to discard their individual traits for their new existence as a paired couple, they can enjoy perpetual peace and joy.

The family formed by such couples would make small units of heaven on earth.

There is no question of family discords !  

That is the way a civilized man and woman should behave once united as a married couple.

However, for uncivilized human beings who come under the category of barbarians this principle is not applicable.

Because peace , harmony and beauty can only be enjoyed by civilized individuals !

Barbarians perhaps enjoy fights, chaos and filth ! They only know whether they enjoy it or not !

To live as a couple in peaceful equilibrium under loving bondage always, the husband and wife should learn to forgo their individuals characteristics for a more enjoyable paired existence.

The husband should agree with the wife for all matters even when his individual feeling is otherwise.

The wife should agree with the husband for all matters even when her individual feeling is otherwise.

The husband should learn that the wife is prime in his life than all his other relations like his father, mother, brothers or sisters.

Likewise the wife should learn that the husband is prime in her life than all her other relations like her father, mother, brother or sisters.

For this pair even their child or children should be second only to the husband or the wife.

But once they practise it this way, surprisingly all others connected and related to them find them more desirable and loving than either the husband or the wife taken individually.

Then they become the way God wanted them to be !

For God prefers those who are peace makers and those who know peaceful co-existence.

Husband and wife couples in loving bondage and complementary companionships forming the fundamental units of the family are the greatest achievement of any civilized society or nation.

Such couples ensure fortunate families with happy children.

Such couples ensure that their children also make ideal couples when they grow up.

Such couples would also ensure that they are never old parasites for their grown up and coupled children.

Old age is the time for them to be mutually complementary for preparing themselves for the future complementary companionship beyond their material existence !

The life is much enjoyable and heavenly here on this earth if you know how to live it !

Longing for individual freedom and independence is not the solution. It is the method adopted by either spineless cowards or rebellious egoists in uncivilized groups exhibiting beastly or barbarian natures.

I would only say this: living in complementary companionship as husband and wife pair is a wonderful experience.

You can experience a heavenly life here in earth itself if you learn how to live like that.

That is my simple advice to all tensioned couples thinking of other options or live in a state of war and peace !